Its Ok To Be Single

Hey Loves happy Monday!!! I hope you all had an amazing weekend and I do hope you have a blessed week.

There is nothing wrong with being single, its ok to be, it's actually an amazing time to find yourself, do things you have been wanting to do, learn new things about yourself and following your dreams if you haven't already. It's a time to get to know yourself better, the things you like and what you don't like and also preparing yourself for the right relationship when God sends it your way. Knowing what you are looking for and what you want in a relationship.

Being single is actually being free and doing whatever it is you want to do focusing on yourself and your life. It gives you time to heal if you have been hurt in the past so I don't recommend you to rush into a new relationship when you have just left out of one, give your heart and mind time to heal to be able to love and trust and again and trying to leave all the baggage of the past behind you so that when the time comes you don't bring the past into your new relationship.

When you do that, it causes trouble on top of trouble, everything that person does you doubt them and you don't believe they are being truthful, you always believe they are lying even when they are not.

Yes sometimes being single feel like it sucks because you see all these relationship goals on social media and you see couples in the street and you think to yourself I want that, why cant I have that, why do I have to be alone, let me tell you something appreciate your time being alone and enjoy it because when you do get into another relationship its going to take hard work especially not to bring the past into it.

Don't feel bad when you are single instead embrace it and appreciate the time you have with yourself and while doing that pray to God to send the right person in your life and tell him what your looking for and if he sees it fit he will send what you ask for to you and if he doesn't send exactly what you are looking for he will send you who he thinks will best suit you.

Sometimes people are so lucky to find Mr Right or Ms Right, but for some its just another lesson to prepare you for when its time for their Mr Right or Ms Right.

And also always remember this no one can make you happy but you, your happiness comes from within and never give someone the keys to your happiness because that's when they will take advantage of you!!



  1. Very interesting post! Thanks for sharing! 😘😘😘

  2. Such a great post! I agree but I'm lucky enough to have met my soul mate!

    The Cassie Paige
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    1. thanks cassie, so happy that you have your soulmate in your life

  3. This is such good advice! :) It's funny as my pastor just had a message on marriage and one of the things he talked about was what you said here - just embrace being single and concentrate on your relationship with God and know that He will put someone in your life. It was a really good message! It's online at if you want to see it. There was good advice for married people too, which I welcomed as I'm married myself :)

    Hope you are having an awesome week so far! :)

    Away From The Blue Blog

  4. It's always interesting to read your posts darling!
    Kisses, Paola.

  5. really interesting post as usual dear. It's always a pleasure to read your posts :)

  6. Agreed. Being single and spending time by yourself, will open up your inner voice. It's amazing how the volume on that truthful voice is turned down when we are too busy, being busy. But yeah, being single will and happy with it will reveal very honest insights.

  7. Totally agree dear, it's also a time to get closer to God and build your empire. There is nothing wrong with just living your life and enjoying it to the fullest with family and friends. When the right one comes along, he can be added to the joy that you've already established before him and if something happens to him, you'll go on living without him. Thanks for sharing my dear, your post get's better I've noticed.

    Bernie, xx
    The Style Fanatic

  8. Thank for your visit! Kiss 😘😘😘

  9. Great post and tips doll. Enjoy your weekend!

  10. I'm now married, but I totally agree with you on all of this! People put so much pressure on themselves to be in relationships that they stick with people who aren't right for them and don't make them happy. Being single is a much better option!
    Beth x Adventure & Anxiety



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