Are You Being Real Or Are You Fake?!?

Hey loves!!! happy Monday!!! How was your weekend? Did you enjoy it?

I have to talk on this topic because i don't only see people talk about it but also hear people talk about it.


People in today's society they only know you when you are thriving and reaching to higher heights but before you were, it's like you were nobody to them, even if they knew you they acted like they didn't but as soon as you start climbing up the ladder you start to see them coming around calling and texting.

I mean come on everyone has to start from somewhere, not everyone has the privilege like some to start at the top.  Some of us have to start from the bottom and climb our way to the top and behind that is hard work is sweat, and lets not forget about the crying phase when you feel to give up but know you can't!! You have to put in the extra hours and work harder than ever to accomplish where you want to go while for some it's handed down to them, which nothing is wrong with that it's totally fine but its the fact on how you approach or treat people because they might not be on your level but when they do reach to your level that's when you know them!! Why couldn't they be treated just as equally when they were at the bottom?

Life isn't a bed of roses and we should all treat each other equally because you never know whose hands you might fall into in the long run, and don't pretend to like someone when you don't and most of all don't pretend to be happy for their success when you aren't.  And the fact that some are always smiling in your face while trying to plot your downfall, it's so sad because at the end of the day that same plot might bite that same person in the a$$.

Why be jealous of someone else's accomplishments instead of happy for them? If you want to be successful, work for it just as how that person did, but the fact is some of us want to reach at the top of the ladder without doing the hard work and that's not how life goes, there is a saying that says, "You Want Good Your Nose Has To Run" and for all my Jamaican viewers we say " Yu Want Gud Yu Nose Haffi Run".

Why can't you be genuinely happy for people and genuinely support people that's how we should all be, because we are all one no matter where we come from. We all want success so why not help each other instead of tearing each other down. Help each other up the ladder as we go along that's how things should be, don't you think?

Be real and honest with others, don't play hypocrite because that doesn't pay!! Be genuine, be kind, Be caring, Be helpful.

Have you experienced this? What did you do to overcome it?

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8 comments:


  1. I live in a country where most of the people are poor. We work for a little money, many people don't work at all. And in years that made people to got really envy, jealous and mean.
    So you can't be honest with almost anyone. When something good happen to you, no one is happy for you. I think it's envy the most.
    It makes me sad.
    I learned not to share a lot, even though I wanted to.
    I overcome that kind of situation with my husband, we're a team. ♥

    You wrote a pretty good text, I like the theme. :)

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  2. I've experienced that many times in my life, so I totally understand you.

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  3. I feel you. Yes it's often hard to understand if the person next to you is honest and sincere or it's just playing some game

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  5. It hurts to find out a friend has been fake. But if you can read people, you already know who will be there for you and who won't. The sooner you find out, the better. Great post!









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  6. People who face the real struggle appreciate and are more thankful for the success: We ´re wise enough to know who really deserves to be with us! ;)
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