10 Things To Start Doing For Yourself

Do things today that will help you to make your life better and improve yourself and make yourself proud. Have a lovely day!

1. Start working towards your goal every single day

Do something each day that helps you towards your goals no matter how small it is whether it's practicing in the mirror writing it down or even saving a dollar each day whatever goal it might be take a step each day and if you can't make a big step make a tiny one it still counts

2. Start Concetrating on things you can control

Instead of focusing and stressing about things that you can't control or its out of your hands, do the things you can control whether it's how you think or the things you say and if it's running a business be the best girl or male boss you can be what ever it is that you can't get done right now and it's out of your control leave it to God let him help you because we can't always do things on our own.

3. Start being more open about how you feel

Instead of grumbling under your breath or saying anything at all express how you feel and your opinion instead of keeping it inside if that person or persons don't like the truth then so be it that's on the not on you, everybody's feelings matter not only theirs and your thoughts and opinions count too remember that so today express how you feel, you will feel the relief off your shoulders trust me. And especially if it's an idea say your idea you never know that person or persons just might love what you have to say

4. Start forgiving yourself and others

Forgive those who have wronged and hurt you and also forgive yourself for mistakes you might have made because if you don't forgive yourself and others it will eat you away and eventually make you sick. Holding others in your heart isn't worth it because they are the ones who feel free and all your carrying is guilt so let go off the past and forgive whoever have wrong or hurt you and if you blame yourself for letting them hurt you or giving them the chance to do so forgive yourself also because when you do that you see lifting a very heavy burden from your shoulders. It will be like a sigh of relief and happiness

5. Start giving your ideas and your dreams a chance

Don't give up on your dreams because you don't see it working right now, give your dreams and ideas a chance to be revealed in times, remember time does things and dreams don't happen over night and not everyone will love your ideas but the right person will just believe in u ourself and have faith that it will all work out, hive yourself the chance and prove to yourself that you can do it, if you notice what I said prove to yourself not others but yourself.

6. Start enjoying the things you already have

Instead of wishing on the things you don't have enjoy what you already have whether it's friends family a home, a job you name it appreciate what you have and everything else will fal, into pace in due time. Don't run in front of God and try to do things on your own because up your timing is not always his timing, so enjoy the little things in life until you get the bigger things in life.

7. Start living in the present

Stop living in the past and thinking about what could have been or how things would have worked out if you did this or didn't do that, don't think like that. Remember everything happens for a reason, you might not see it this instant but in the long run you will, so live for today and live in the present because that's what's best for you and your life so don't dwell on the past instead focus on the present and where you are at currently and try and improve yourself day by day.

8. Start being yourself

There is nothing better than being yourself, don't try to pretend to be someone or something your not to impress others, there is nothing better than being you. If someone can't appreciate you for being you then they don't deserve to be apart of your life. Be nobody but yourself because there is no one like you and there will never be anyone like you.

9. Start facing your problems head on

Never run away from your problems, because no matter how far you run from them when you get back the problems will still be there. Instead take things one day at a time and fix your problem or problems one day at a time, just like things take time to happen things take time to be fixed so face it head on and take it one day at a time

10. Start spending time with the right people

Don't throw away old friends for new friends, remember the people who were there for you before you met new people and they will still be there for you even when the new ones betray you so be careful of the people you spend time with keep your circle small if you can because that's the best way to go, I mean you can have acquaintances but not everyone needs to know your business so be around people,who genuinely support, love and appreciate you.

Are you doing whats best for you? Have you started doing these ten things for yourself?

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  1. Agree with everything here. I also appreciate everything I have eventhough I don't have everything thing I want.

    1. thanks diana, yes you should and thats great because not many do

  2. Great tips and very inspiring


  3. I'm proud to say I'm doing everything you've stated right here.

    Bernie, xx
    The Style Fanatic

  4. This is really beautiful and inspiring! :-)

    ~Laurali Star

    1. thank you so much glad you found it inspiring

  5. True at times we spend so much time caring for other people and forget to take care of ourselves.

    Thank you so much for sharing girl.

    Zanele | In Out & Around Soweto Blog

  6. I nodded at each point as I was reading this post. It is so important to forgive others in order to move on and accomplish our goals.
    Great post! xx


  7. I absolutely love this post Kerona. I think of everything I have read from you this is probably my favorite.
    Number 2 speaks the most to me now because it relates perfectly with my current situation. Sometimes we know these things but still need a little reminder. Thank you for sharing :)
    Sauniya | Find Your Bliss ♡

    1. thank you sauniya, im glad you love it!!! yes we all need a little reminder at times

  8. Thanks for the inspiring tips! I think your tips are something that women generally learn over time with more experience and confidence!

    Simply Lovebirds



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