Happy Monday loves, first off I had posted this last week but it was not showing on the blog but yet still the post was up, now last night my Internet cord decided to stop working my bf tried fixing it nothing, sometimes the devil tries to work to get us down, I have literally been upset about it from last night I dont think I even slept good, you won't spoil my day devil or allow me not to do my work, things will get us down guys but we have to rise above it and keep pushing now onto the post!!
We are all searching for that one person we want to spend the rest of our life with, but we have to hit one too many bumps along the way sometimes. It's hard repeatedly getting your heart broken, but guess what the right one will come who will mend it all. If he keeps avoiding these 4 signs with you, then i think its time you put your feet in your hand and make a run for it.
1. You've never been to his apartment or home
He always comes to your house or apartment but he can never take you to his, there is always an excuse either it's too far away, it's messy, my roommate is not a nice person even if he doesn't have a roommate he has one, these are just a few of the excuses he will make or he will say it's just easier to come to your place and no matter how you ask or wait you will never get to see his apartment or his house, that right there is a big red flag!!
2. He hasn't introduced you to his friends or family
Anytime you go out it's either together or with your friends, you never see his friends or their girl and you barely know their names or know anything about them or his family, you have never talked to any of his family members or never herd them say to tell you hello when he's on the phone with them. If he hasn't taken you to meet his family especially that's just telling you he's not in it for the long haul your just a temporary secret girlfriend. If he was in it for the long haul and he's serious about you he would let you meet his family any chance he gets.
3. He's always on a rush/excuse when should be spending time with you.
If your dating a guy and anytime he's around and he's always checking his watch or phone and you know he doesn't have an appointment or has any current engagements to attend then you need to beware, it's either he has priorities else where or he's just using you for what he can get. There is always an excuse when you should go out . He rather go to parties than spend time with you.
4. You never have conversations about the future
Of all the times you have sat and had conversations he never mentions anything about the relationship being long term, you never have the marriage talk and he always changes the topic if you do bring it up, for e.g. We don't need to talk about that right now we have a lot of time before we have that conversation.
Another thing is if you say your going to post a picture of you both he gets upset about it or he finds an excuses to why you should not, this is a major red flag, just means he has something to hide.
If he keeps avoiding these 4 signs with you, then i think its time you put your feet in your hand and make a run for it.
Have you ever experienced these things in a relationship before? Ever fell in love with someone who wasn't in it for the long haul?