Talk/Listen to your partner

Happy Monday Loves!! How was your weekend? Did you enjoy it?

Why is it that when something is wrong with a guy they always say nothing is wrong or I’m fine, when deep down you know something is really bothering you. When we ask what’s wrong we are giving you the opportunity to talk to us, to listen to you and help in any way we can.


Is it that you think we as women won’t understand or that we won’t be able to help you?  If you don’t talk to us how will you know if we can help you or not.

Sometimes men put up this barrier because they don’t want to seem weak or they feel that if they open to their girlfriend/wife we won’t look at them the same.  If you know you’re with a good woman you shouldn’t be scared to show your emotions or talk to her. She should be the one you can talk to about any and everything she should be your best friend.

The same goes for us as women too at times. Take away the fear and talk to your other half, if your important to that person as they say you are he/she will listen to you.

So today if there is something bothering you and your scared to talk to your girlfriend or your boyfriend just be brave and go sit and talk to that person, you never know they just might brighten your day.

Does your partner talk to you? Do you have to force your partner to talk to you?




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15 comments:

  1. This post is really wonderful! Thank you for sharing it! xx
    Have a great day!

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  2. Such a lovely post!I'll show it to my hubby!!!
    Kisses, Paola.
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    1. Thanks Paola, i do hope you both enjoy reading

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  4. I agree with you on this, men sometimes create this wall, they don't want to talk to you because they might come across as weak and overly sensitive. Not cool.

    Bernie, xx
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    1. So true, i really don't like it, it drives me nuts!!

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  5. This is a really great post. Communication is a very important part of any relationship.

    Wendee//theglossychic.com

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  6. Men tend to think that they can solve all their problems. And even as women, we tend to go through moments when we don't want to talk about our problems, but it is always good to let the other person know what is going on. Great post, beautiful. Keep them coming!

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  7. Fancy you writing about this. I was speaking to a friend of mine who is going through some difficulty and his girlfriend and she felt left out because he wasn't telling her much. I do think that sometimes the emotions they feel stop them from speaking rather than the fact that they don't think the lady can do much to help much less a listening ear.

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    1. thanks for giving your opinion, i never thought of it that way!!

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  8. I used to be the type who holds it in and not talk, but my husband is the opposite. It just takes practice and getting used to, I guess, but now we have really good, open communication. :)

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    1. Thats great glad you guys are doing better!! i usto be like that too sometimes i cant get it out either even if we are in the same room sometimes i send a text because thats the way im able to get it out to say my mind at times

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