Relationships aren't perfect no matter how much you try to perfect it, it never will be perfect.
We all have disagreements sometimes, even the people who you think have the perfect marriage or relationship has struggles, but everyone handles situations differently.
Are you a priority in your partners life? Do you ever have to second guess if your a priority to his/hers life?
No one is perfect but no matter how busy you are there must be even a second out of your day that you can pick up the phone and see how your partner is doing or even just to say I LOVE YOU. Is that so hard to do!! How much energy is it taking you to do just that? Let me answer that for you, none!!
If someone can go hours or a day without talking to you, then that leaves you to think if your important to them or are they pre occupied with something or someone else and as I said above you should be never too busy to check on your partner.
If you have to always be second guessing if your a priority to your partner and wondering if your important to them, its time to start doing some thinking and soul searching.
In this life you need to put your happiness before anything and anyone else because if you don't thats how you will get used and abused and when someone thinks that what they are doing its ok with you, they will never change, so express yourself and say how you feel, If he or she wants to be mad and let their ego get in the way, let them go ahead but at the end of the day never settle for less than what you deserve, because we all deserve to be loved, made a priority and be appreciated whether it be male or female we all deserve to be a priority in other peoples lives.
If people are gonna treat you like your an option then, let me tell you leave them like a choice, for 2017 don't let people walk all over you stand firm for what you believe in and get the love that you truly deserve