Are you a priority?!?!

Relationships aren't perfect no matter how much you try to perfect it, it never will be perfect.

We all have disagreements sometimes, even the people who you think have the perfect marriage or relationship has struggles, but everyone handles situations differently.


Are you a priority in your partners life? Do you ever have to second guess if your a priority to his/hers life?

No one is perfect but no matter how busy you are there must be even a second out of your day that you can pick up the phone and see how your partner is doing or even just to say I LOVE YOU. Is that so hard to do!! How much energy is it taking you to do just that? Let me answer that for you, none!!

If someone can go hours or a day without talking to you, then that leaves you to think if your important to them or are they pre occupied with something or someone else and as I said above you should be never too busy to check on your partner.

If you have to always be second guessing if your a priority to your partner and wondering if your important to them, its time to start doing some thinking and soul searching. 

In this life you need to put your happiness before anything and anyone else because if you don't thats how you will get used and abused and when someone thinks that what they are doing its ok with you, they will never change, so express yourself and say how you feel, If he or she wants to be mad and let their ego get in the way, let them go ahead but at the end of the day never settle for less than what you deserve, because we all deserve to be loved, made a priority and be appreciated whether it be male or female we all deserve to be a priority in other peoples lives.

If people are gonna treat you like your an option then, let me tell you leave them like a choice, for 2017 don't let people walk all over you stand firm for what you believe in and get the love that you truly deserve 

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42 comments:

  1. Another great post, beautifully written. I agree, our loved ones must be our priority and a good relationship is based on that. It is impossible during the day not to think about the other or talk to him/her and that shows how important you are to them! x

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  2. Such a great post! A relationship is give and take and it's important to treat each other with respect.

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  3. Perfectly written dear. Love this! This applies to friendship too. Like The last paragraph is part of my new year resolutions. Sometimes you need to stop crossing oceans for people who wouldn't even cross the road for you. I say respect yourself and walk away.

    Bernie, xx
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    1. Thanks Bernie!!!! so so true, you hit the nail on the head with that last sentence

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  4. This really applies for all the relationships that we have.
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  5. I couldn't agree more , some relationships are one sided . Thanks for sharing this post.

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  6. Well written.. good point :)

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  7. Great post and advice. Keep them coming!

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  8. Well done! you are spot on with this post. Even people with the best marriages stumble upon hard times. You are right when you say your happiness comes first. You can only give people what you have. You can only share happiness if you have it yourself. Likewise as a married woman, I have learned that I can only give my husband my best when I have taken care of me.

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  9. This is so true!! You can't pour out of an empty cup. :)
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  10. lovely :)
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  11. Word! Fact! What you allow will not change. I enjoyed reading this post.

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  12. This post is so true! I think it is also similar with friends, my new years resolution is to definitely stop wondering why people don't always make effort and to put myself first:)

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    1. Yes it is!! Good glad you decided to put yourself first

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  13. Such a great post! What is a relationship without respect?!

    Darriyan xo
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    1. relationship without respect is no relationship at all

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  14. Great post! You must always put yourself first! All the best xx

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  15. Such a lovely post, perfectly written babe!
    The first quote is great!
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  16. Such an interesting post! Thank you :D I think this goes for friendships as well, not just relationships. I've had more than my fair share of friends who don't care all that much about me

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  17. Happy weekend babe!


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  18. YES. This is a really important thing to remember in all our relationships with people, not just romantic ones. Sometimes I'll beat myself up about not reaching out to someone often enough, but there's the other side of them not reaching out to me either. Finding that balance can be so hard! Love it <3

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  19. very true my dear...you can't let people take advantage of you.

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  20. So true. Nobody is ever THAT busy. "Busy" is just an excuse. You always make time for the ones you love.

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  21. Thanks for sharing this. So true!

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  22. Great post! I think you are spot on that we should trust our intuition on if we are a priority to someone or not, if the person was right for you, their actions would not allow you to feel that way.

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  23. great post...

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  24. You said the true,love this post! Big hug

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  25. Preach it, girl! I love the message behind this post. :D Luckily, I definitely feel like a priority in my boyfriend's life, which is an awesome feeling. <3 xoxo

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  28. Great post, very well-written! I agree with you that if you really consider someone as important in your life, you will always make time for them. It's because you can't even go a day without thinking about 'em! :D

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