Relationship Goals!?!?!

We all have relationship goals, don't we? Everyone's goal is different.

Sometimes we look at celebs and say they are relationship Goals or we see other couples and say they are relationship goals, the fact is we can't say that because we don't know what goes on behind closed doors because I mean no relationship is perfect, I'm not saying you can’t admire couples or take a page from their book but saying they are relationship Goals to me is a little bit extreme, some might agree and some might disagree.


Some of us have relationship Goals like, building a life together, wearing matching outfits, getting dream cars while having one that you share, getting a house, being able to show off each other by posting pics of each other, graduating together, falling asleep in his arms while he plays video games you name it.

Some have those goals while some people's relationship goals are trying to keep communicating better and better each day, being able to talk to each other about anything no secrets no lies, working on having a better life together, working hard, we all have our different relationship goals. Not because a person's relationship goal is different or it might not be same thing that you would do, doesn't mean it isn't a goal it still is everyone's goal is just different.

There is that extremely big relationship goal that most of us dream of, can you tell me what it is? Waiting! waiting! did you guess your answer? What is it? Tell me tell me, oh I know MARRIAGE!! Majority of us has that relationship goal on our agenda for girls we dream of being proposed to and we dream about our wedding day wanting it to be special whether big or small. For the males, they dream of getting the answer yes and they dream of seeing their beautiful bride coming down the Aisle and saying I do. Most of us have this dream.

There are others who don't have relationship goals they just go with the flow. Not because they don't have goals don't mean they don't want a relationship or that they don't care about having one, some people will eventually warm up to the idea of having goals while some just want to go with the flow.
Some people do reach their relationship goals because they work hard towards it they stayed through thick or thin good times and bad, while some gave up along the way, don't judge that person if they gave up because sometimes there is so much that a person can handle until their cup over flows and as I stated before you never know what's going on behind closed doors.


Take Michelle and Barack Obama as an example. Look at them they are prime examples of a good couple, I personally admire them don't you? 

Do you have relationship goals? Do you set relationship goals? If yes have you started working towards them? Have you succeeded at any of your goals? Or do you just go with the flow?

Have a lovely day!!!! 



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33 comments:

  1. It's okay to admire, but to be honest I never say other people's business is/are goals to me, relationship, marriage, house, body, looks and all that. 'Goals' is a strong word it should be what you want and what you plan on achieving as an individual(you alone should build your 'Goals'), not trying to accept other people's goals as your goal forgetting all fingers aren't equal. If it makes any sense. The way this society is programmed everything is goals to them, even common makeup look is goals. Plus like you said we never know what happens behind closed doors, that's why I'm not too keen on people's goal or what they are achieving in their relationship or whatsoever. Have a great week hun.

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    1. Thanks for your opinion Bernie, glad you shared your input
      thanks and same to you hun

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  2. Well to an extent goals are an extreme, it almost seems like you are indirectly putting pressure on each other. i think once you can trust and support each other everything else falls into place. Great post.

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  3. Very interesting post. I don't really have a marriage goal. Not saying I don't want to get married, I just personally feel like marriage shouldn't be a goal. You can easily end up marrying the wrong person or getting married for the wrong reasons just to fulfill that goal. For me it's more important to be with the right person, someone that fits you, then get married.
    I also believe you shouldn't work towards a relationship but work on yourself and you'd attract the right person.
    It's nice to look at successful couples and see what they do to make their relationship work and like you said, all couples are different and what works for one might not wok for someone else.
    My main goal is to be happy, with myself first then with a companion. :)
    Thank you for sharing Kerona and good luck with your goals :)
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  4. I find them very cute, after many years, they still love each other so so much and they always show it!
    I subscribed to your blow, hope u could follow back pls? x
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    1. so true!! Thanks for following!!!
      i will be sure to check your blog out

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  5. I really admire that couple. And this is a very interesting post, dear.

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  6. Great <3
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  7. Great post dear, really interesting to read you as usual :)
    thanks for sharing dear :)
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  8. I think its okay to have goals as long as you can still be you and be happy with what you've got!

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  9. Finding happiness together... it's so true. Such a Lovely post darling!
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  10. Lovely post! Maybe we could follow each other on GFC and instagram @djonovic_milica? If yes, follow me and I follow back as soon as I see it.
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  11. I so admire President Obama and his wife. You can see just how much they love each other. Great post!

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  12. I admire Michele and Obama too, bit I also admire when I see old people walking together in the street holding hands, and I love how patient, loving and caring are with each other after all these years of being together. I envy that and it is sad to see people ruining relationships and not working for them!

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  13. Michelle and Obama are indeed a fabulous couple and we gonna miss them so much! Relation ships are hard and need to be work every day! have a great day
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    1. yes relationships take work everyday but some people don't know that

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  14. very good post! we should work on our relationship every day

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  15. Beautiful post! Have goals are amazing... Inspiration and good vibes are everything!
    Your blog is fab! I'm following you* Follow back?
    Kisses <3
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  16. Great post, dear! Personally, I think that every relationship is unique and should not be compared to others. I'm so grateful for being in a relationship that is "goals" for me, but that doesn't mean that what I have would work for someone else ;)

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    1. thanks Tijana!!! so true i always tell others you cant use another persona relationship to define yours

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  17. Hoping when I find the right one, we can do all the fun things I admire from different couples. Like matching Tees and playing video games together.
    I love your blog,I love your consistency (goals for me). I will try to comment from now on and not just read.

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    1. I wish that for you too and i do hope you will find your mr right, thanks for commenting hun, awww thank you!!!!

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  18. I don't try to compare my relationship to others, but I know that I am not looking or perfection in my husband. I accept his flaws and admire his strength. This is such an eye opening post. Thanks for sharing doll!

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